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Tantra Retreats
for Couples


“I've never seen my wife enjoy herself so much!” D.M. Nashville, Sales

Having been bi-sexual when i was younger, I really enjoy teaching couples tantra. I greatly appreciate the beauty and sensuality of women and love to lavish them with adoration and attention. I think women sense this about me and are drawn to me. My husband Chris and i find sacred sexuality and tantric experience and practices especially wonderful for women and couples. We specialize in teaching full body sensual massage and genital massage which helps  woman heal from past sexual shame, guilt, abuse and trauma and open up to their full ecstatic and orgasmic nature. We also specialize in teaching women how to facilitate their man to master ejaculatory choice and become full body multi-orgasmic along with them. Since this is a journey both Chris and i have been on ourselves we are passionate about helping other couples receive the benefits. The tantric approach allows us to take things slow and get comfortable with each other which tends to work better, especially for women.

“Amber and Chris are master coaches, teachers and practitioners. They did a masterful job of every detail about our experience. They pay attention when you talk, hear and onboard what you say. They crafted the experience around us, and the small touches were recognized. Meditations, breathing, and playful energy building were engaging and fun. They created an atmosphere of pure sensuality and indulgence, and made us feel 100% at ease and comfortable, and ready to learn. We will absolutely be keeping in touch with Amber and Chris.” - C.S. and J.S., Raleigh Tech 

My wife discovered new sensations, new areas that felt amazing she had never noticed before. She found her voice in being able to direct me to what felt good. Watching you on the table she said was actually incredibly beneficial, and she found that it "gave her permission."  We were both completely at ease with the entire weekend, despite our anxiety walking in. You two did an absolutely masterful job of creating comfort, atmosphere, chemistry, and energy that built and crested through the weekend. We agreed this was something we would love to do again even regularly.”
— PT, Charlotte


As a Marriage and Family Therapist and teacher of Compassionate Communication (NVC) i have the skills necessary to guide you safely through the depths of intimacy and heart connection while supporting you to access your passion and desire and explore new possibilities of pleasure. Having been through my own journey of sexual healing and becoming a more ecstatic and orgasmic woman i know what the journey entails and am a wise and playful guide.

My husband Chris began his path to sexual healing and mastery following the death of his wife after 23 years of marriage. His journey from corporate executive to facilitator and coach required that he confront and address his repressed sexuality that had plagued during his dating life and marriage. Chris has included the study of Inherited Family Trauma, Attachment Theory, Taoism, the Mankind Project, Tantra, and sacred sexuality among others as he worked to transform his life. He writes about his transformational  journey and about Radical Masculinity™. He has also developed a series of daily modern Taoist sexual energy rituals for men for vitality, virility and prostate health. 


We recommend a 3-5 session Tantra Retreat or a 3 month course in person or online as it takes that long to master the practices and rewire your nervous system for real lasting change and transformation, although even just one experience can have a profound and lasting impact on your relationship and sex life and give you a taste of what’s possible.


A Tantra Training Weekend is an ideal gift to give your beloved and an amazing way to nourish your relationship.

If you are interested, book a call with us so i can learn more about your goals and challenges and if i think you’d be a good fit we can share more about what we offer.



My wife and I met Amber and Chris a couple of years ago in San Francisco. The experience exceeded our expectations and it truly improved our relationship. When you have been married as long as we have that is quite a compliment to Amber and Chris and their work with couples.” -M.D., San Francisco

"Tonight was amazing and you all are amazing. I learned so much already and am inspired to heal. You were both so personable, made us both feel so comfortable right away, the flow was natural and inviting; it was just all around a wonderful experience. Just wanted to say thank you again." -San Diego, Tech industry

“We have felt a sense of calming euphoria since Saturday, that has persisted strongly all the way through this Tuesday afternoon. We have felt aligned, connected, and in step with each other almost inexplicably. It has been wonderful.


Our senses have remained heightened. Going on walks here, smelling coffee in the morning, gentle touches we give each other throughout the day. All of this has been elevated. We are going to work very hard to maintain this, as it has been very intoxicating. I personally have felt a constant state of arousal. It has not waned at all, and has been there, just under the surface even in my day to day. This is all just the afterglow of everything from this past weekend retreat with you two...

Immediately after her session, she talked about being 100% completely in the moment, and completely in tune with everything, every touch, sensation, energy and the like. She’d never felt so much pleasure or even knew it was possible. However, she updated her sentiment after my session. She said, ya know....I thought I had completely let go during my session, but i realized I hadn't. I really let go during your session. 

Prior to our weekend, she has a girlfriend whom she said it might be fun to do this couples retreat with. Then, after her session, I asked her again. Now that you’ve done it, and you know what is involved, would you still do this? and she said, Oh yeah, definitely."  - C.S. and J.S., Raleigh Tech 

“The experience that Amber and Chris facilitated for me and my partner had a profound impact on our relationship and sex life. With their guidance I feel like I was able to slow down and for the first time really look at and touch a woman and learn how to please my girlfriend more fully.”  -DC, Military

“I met my husband 20 years ago at a Christian College. I was shut down sexually as a result of growing up in the purity movement where if a woman has any sexual experience she is taught to think of herself as used trash. I was always a good christian and wife and have never been with anyone except my husband. However, the conditioning of the purity movement along with the stress of having 3 children, one of which has down syndrome, had taken its toll on my sex drive and our marriage. My husband was saying he wanted an open marriage if we didn't do something about our sex life. I'm so glad I found Amber. Our work with her has saved our marriage! My husband didn't want to see a therapist but what Amber offers is so fun and unique he agreed to see her after the 3 of us spoke at length over zoom.


We made arrangements to visit Asheville for the weekend for a couple’s retreat with Amber. We knew this was something worth trying and splurging on. Since working with Amber ive been able to experience full body orgasm and multiple orgasms for the first time in my life! I actually cried after making love with my husband the other day and told him I want my children to be able to experience this! Just yesterday I told him that I didn't know I could feel this good! I'm so grateful to have met and worked with Amber and finally to be able to release the shame and guilt and to not pass it on to our children! Working with Amber I felt comfortable with her the whole time and there was just the right amount of challenge.” -M.M. Nashville, Mom of 3

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