Having been bi-sexual from a young age, I really enjoy experiences with couples. I greatly appreciate the beauty and sensuality of women and love to lavish them with attention. I think women sense this about me and seem drawn to me. I find the tantric experience and practices especially wonderful for women and couples sessions. I specialize in teaching full body sensual massage and genital massage which helps a woman open up to her full ecstatic and orgasmic capacity and men to master ejaculatory choice and virility. The tantric approach also allows us to take things slow and get comfortable with each other which tends to work better for women.

“Melissa is a master coach, teacher and practitioner. She did a masterful job of every detail about our experience. She pays attention when you talk, hears and onboards what you say. She crafted the experience around us, and the small touches were recognized. Meditations, breathing, and playful energy building were engaging and fun. She created an atmosphere of pure sensuality and indulgence, and made us feel 100% at ease and comfortable, and ready to learn. We will absolutely be keeping in touch with Melissa.” - C.S. and J.S., Raleigh Tech 

 

I also offer Tantric Coaching for couples including private retreats tailored specifically to your individual needs. I offer a curriculum of progressive tantric experiences and initiations that build upon each other and take you both deeper into intimate connection with each other and activate your full potential as tantric lovers and fully ecstatic and orgasmic individuals. If you are interested, book a call with me so i can learn more about your goals and challenges and if i think you’d be a good fit i can share more about what i offer.

“My wife discovered new sensations, new areas that felt amazing she had never noticed before. She found her voice in being able to direct me to what felt good. Watching you on the table she said was actually incredibly beneficial, and she found that it "gave her permission."  We were both completely at ease with the entire weekend, despite our anxiety walking in. You did an absolutely masterful job of creating comfort, atmosphere, chemistry, and energy that built and crested through the weekend. We agreed this was something we would love to do again even regularly.”
— PT, Charlotte

As a Marriage and Family Therapist and teacher of Compassionate Communication (NVC) i have the skills necessary to guide you safely through the depths of intimacy and heart connection while supporting you to access your passion and desire and explore new possibilities of pleasure. Having been through my own journey of sexual healing and becoming a more ecstatic and orgasmic woman i know what the journey entails and am a wise and playful guide.

 

I recommend a 3-5 session Tantra Retreat or a 3 month course in person or online as it takes that long to master the practices and rewire your nervous system for real lasting change and transformation. Even just one session can have a profound impact on your relationship and sex life and give you a taste of what’s possible when you commit to a longer adventure with me. A Tantra Session or series is an ideal gift to give your beloved and an amazing way to nourish your relationship.

TESTIMONIALS

“My wife and I met Melissa a couple of years ago in San Francisco. The experience exceeded our expectations and it truly improved our relationship. When you have been married as long as we have that is quite a compliment to Melissa and her work with couples.”

"Tonight was amazing and you are amazing. I learned so much already and am inspired to heal. You were so personable, made us both feel so comfortable right away, the flow was natural and inviting; it was just all around a wonderful experience. Just wanted to say thank you again."

“We have felt a sense of calming euphoria since Saturday, that has persisted strongly all the way through this Tuesday afternoon. We have felt aligned, connected, and in step with each other almost inexplicably. It has been wonderful.

 

Our senses have remained heightened. Going on walks here, smelling coffee in the morning, gentle touches we give each other throughout the day. All of this has been elevated. We are going to work very hard to maintain this, as it has been very intoxicating. I personally have felt a constant state of arousal. It has not waned at all, and has been there, just under the surface even in my day to day. This is all just the afterglow of everything from this past weekend retreat with you. 

Immediately after her session, she talked about being 100% completely in the moment, and completely in tune with everything, every touch, sensation, energy and the like. She’d never felt so much pleasure or even knew it was possible. However, she updated her sentiment after my session. She said, ya know....I thought I had completely let go during my session, but i realized I hadn't at all. I let go during your session. 

Prior to our weekend, she has a girlfriend whom she said it might be fun to do this couples retreat with. Then, after her session, I asked her again. Now that you’ve done it, and you know what is involved, would you still do this? and she said, surprisingly, Oh yeah, definitely." 

 

“The experience that Melissa facilitated for me and my partner had a profound impact on our relationship and sex life. With her guidance I feel like I was able to slow down and for the first time really look at and touch a woman and learn how to please my girlfriend more fully.”