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Amber St. Germain
Sexual Confidence Coach

Men's Charisma and Confidence Coach
Somatic Sex Therapist and Expert

 
Sex expert Amber St. Germain

"The Eternal Feminine draws us upward."

- Goethe

I love helping conscious professional men become confident and charismatic with women and sexuality.

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I dont know of any other coaches who specialize in a process and practices to help you become reliably full body orgasmic and multiorgasmic as well as being able to help your partner become reliably full body orgasmic and multi-orgasmic. It is a special skill I have developed over a decade of study and practice in the sensual arts. I started on my tantra path quite young as a result of an abusive religious background that made me feel shut down sexually and out of touch with my sensual nature. As a result I dedicated myself to healing and to becoming full body and multi-orgasmic. 

 

The great thing about doing your sexual healing, which we all have to do as a result of growing up in a sex and pleasure negative culture, is that it positively affects every other area of life. You will find that sexual superpowers like I am talking about here give you unstoppable confidence and charisma outside of the bedroom. 

 

I've been told my comfort with my body and sexuality is contagious and puts others at ease. Many of my clients, both men and women, have their first experience of full body orgasm in their very first in person experience with me. I love dinner dates and off the clock experiences so I can take you to one of my favorite restaurants in Asheville and or a hike on the blue ridge parkway so that we can build our chemistry together. I also love private weekend training retreats in Asheville for individuals or couples. With women and couples I work with my partner Christoph Merrick to provide the highest value for your time and investment. 

 

I’ve studied and practiced Tantric and Taoist sexual practices for more than a decade. I’ve been featured in books and videos on Tantra and sensual massage which you can see in the VIP area of my website and i've even written a book of my own on reaching your full ecstatic and orgasmic potential and being a Heart Centered Player and evolved lover. 

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I offer a weekend or during the week Tantra Adept Training which includes a dinner date and outing and three 2.5 hour tantra initiations that build on each other as well as individual in person VIP days.

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Are you a connoisseur who appreciates the finer things in life? 

Are you discriminating when it comes to relationships and sensual experiences? 

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Are you ambitious and successful yet believe in slowing down to enjoy life and smell the roses now and then? 

Then i may be the coach for you!

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How to see me live and in the flesh.​

I have limited one on one experiences available. To apply to work with me please 

fill out my Screening Form or message me the below information. 

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  1. Your Full Legal Name 

  2. What you are looking for or which of my offerings you are interested in?

  3. When you would like to get together and in what city? 

  4. Your Linkedin Profile with at least 50 contacts and a photo, work email or ID. If retired you may send references or a drivers license.  Linkedin is my preference since it's quick and easy and we can get to know each other a little more there if you like. I have lots of articles I've written on Tantra and Sacred Sexuality among other things you can read on my Linked In. 

    Use the link below to reach out to me and add me as a Connection from your Linked In Profile. https://www.linkedin.com/in/amber-st-germain-504179169/ I'm on Linked In as a Psychotherapist, Sex Therapist and Coach. I would love to be connected with you there. If not, no problem, I understand. Work Verification Options: A. You can send a short email from your work email to this address: amber@empressuniversity.coach. The email needs to be from a corporate site and show your sig file at the bottom that shows the company name, your position/title, and your company email address, which must be listed online so I can verify you. Or B. Text me a photo of your ID card you use at work or your driver's license if you are retired. Send to me at 704-246-9420. If you cannot provide the above info you may provide one or two references. Please realize this screening option usually takes longer. Please include your references name, contact info, the email or phone # you used when booking your appointment with them, their website or a link to their advertising, when and where you saw them and some details to help them remember you. Thank you for your consideration in screening for my safety! You are welcome to use massage therapist or other service workers or healers as references. If it's easier for you to do this by email, please send it to YourSecretHeaven@Proton.me.

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The Screening Form will take you to a mobile friendly screening and booking form where you can choose the type of experience you would like and your preferred dates.

 

The form lists all of my offerings, descriptions, rates and you'll see many more photos of me as you fill it out! It is much faster and simpler than screening by phone or by e-mail and privacy 

is paramount to me! The results go to my private email for my eyes only!

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I believe in Quality Over quantity and am VERY selective about who i see which allows me to provides a higher quality experience for you.

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A little about me:

I have gracious manners, charm, and a way of putting people at ease around me. ​ I’m an all natural rare redhead. Like unicorns, we are infamously sensitive and passionate by nature. My background as a dancer gives me a dancer's body and a graceful way of moving that people often comment on. I’m a modern woman but also a traditional romantic.

 

I have a graduate degree in psychology, have traveled a good amount of the world and I have an insatiable appetite for learning as well as sensual pleasures. â€‹
I can take you higher!

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"Those who have never fallen in love at first sight have never met Amber." - An email from a client from Charlotte, NC

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I offer:

Half and Full Day Off The Clock Introductory Experiences, Ultimate Weekends and Weekend Adept Trainings.

 

(Also available during the week) 

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I have a private sanctuary in the beautiful mountains of Asheville NC which i invite select clients for in person VIP days or you can fly me to you once we

get to know each other!


What's in the VIP Room? 


Very sensual photos and videos of me and several articles I have written on the subject of Sexual Mastery and Tantric Techniques. Reading these articles will ensure you will get the most out of our time together!


I will give you the password to the VIP Room once i receive your deposit.

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I would like to give you something dear,

that makes you my intimate confidante:

to give you a thought of you out of my day

and a dream from my night.

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I want to see (you) blessed

and may you release from my hands,

like a treasure, the tenderness

that you never knew how to long for.

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~ Rilke

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 Amber St. Germain

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