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Good Manners, Kindness and Generosity go far with me...

Please take the time to read over everything on my website so our correspondence and time together will go smoother and be more pleasurable.

Things to do:


My Screening  process is very thorough. Be assured that I screen everyone I see very carefully. If you have questions about hygiene protocols I use in my work, please ask.

  • DEPOSIT- I require a deposit of $100 to save the day and time for us for our initial discovery call.  Once i receive your deposit I will invite you to the Members Only area of my website if you like where you will find more risqué photos and videos of me and articles I've written on sacred sexuality and tantra! To get the process started you may send me a deposit of $100 via Amazon gift card to my email. The deposit is non-refundable but can be applied to a future experience within 6 months.

  • VIP ROOM- After I receive your deposit, I will give you the password to the VIP room that is here on the site which has more risqué photos and videos of me and brief articles I've written on sacred sexuality and tantra to help you prepare for our time together. You may want to read the Tantra 101 articles before we meet. 

    Please treat me as you would treat an MD or any other professional. I have a graduate degree in Psychology (MFT), I am a Somatic Sexologist (Sex Therapist) and Professional Sex and Relationship Coach. I have been studying Tantric Practices for nearly two decades.


  • If a cancellation is made after our appointment is confirmed, you will be expected to pay a $100 cancellation fee.

    This fee can be used as a deposit towards a future experience within 6 months. Cancellation without at least 72 hours notice will be charged 25% of the fee for the scheduled time. This fee will need to be paid within one week of our set appointment and before I will confirm an appointment with you again. Since I am very exclusive about who I see, cancellations have a big impact and I appreciate your understanding in this regard. 

    In Person


  • Be freshly showered and have fresh breath. Shower and mouthwash are available. Cologne and extensive grooming are not necessary. 

  • Please arrive sober. We can share a glass of wine or other drink with 3 hrs or longer together. Ask me about incorporating CBD into the massage or our time together. 

  • Please do not arrive early for your appointment at my private sanctuary. 

  • When you arrive at my location, please call me before coming up to make sure I'm ready for you. 

  • Always be discreet. Privacy is paramount. 

During our time together

  • Treat me like a Lady. I will treat you like a King. 

  • Let me lead the experience. It's better that way, I promise!

  • If you arrive wasted, do anything non-consensual or push my boundaries after I have already said no to a request, I will ask you to leave and the donation will not be refunded.

    Unfortunately,  I have encountered more substance abuse and inappropriate behavior since the pandemic began and I will not tolerate it as it impacts my ability to be present for the majority of my patrons who are considerate and respectful. 


  • Please do not  be on the phone or texting during our time together. If you must be on call or check your phone for work that is understandable. 

Follow up

  • If you’d be willing to give my coaching business a 5 star review on Yelp, let me know and I will give you that information. Please share your written review with me before posting it online and I will credit you $1000 towards your next course or VIP experience with me.

  • I always offer a 30 minute follow up call after any VIP experience, weekend training or coaching course is completed. 


Things to NOT do:

  • Do not suggest any behavior that is unsafe. 

  • Do not ask about services. I offer my time & coaching only.

  • Do not use explicit language, send a nude photo, be vulgar or rude or you will be ignored and blocked immediately.

  • Do not ask for photos. There are plenty on my website. 

Thank you for your care for my happiness and pleasure! I'm looking forward to an incredible journey together.


Amber St. Germain

Amber St. Germain
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