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Good Manners, Kindness and Generosity go far with me...

Please take the time to read over everything on my website so our correspondence and time together will go smoother and be more enjoyable for both of us.

Things to do:


My Screening  process is very thorough. Be assured that I screen everyone I see very carefully. If you have questions about hygiene protocols I use in my work, please ask.

  • DEPOSIT- I require a deposit of $100 to save the day and time for us for our initial Sexual Mastery Strategy "First Date" Call.  Once i receive your deposit I will invite you to the Members Only area of my website where you will find more risqué photos and videos of me and articles I've written on sacred sexuality and tantra! To get the process started you may send me a deposit of $100 via Amazon gift card to my Amber@EmpressUniversity.Coach email. The deposit is non-refundable but can be applied to a future experience within 6 months if needed.

  • VIP ROOM- After I receive your deposit, I will give you the password to the VIP room that is here on the site which has more risqué photos and videos of me and brief articles I've written on sacred sexuality and tantra to help you prepare for our time together. You may want to read at least the Tantra 101 articles before we meet. 

Cancellation Policy

  • Please treat me as you would treat an MD or any other professional. I have a graduate degree in Clinical Psychology (MFT), I am a Somatic Sex Therapist and Professional Sex, Relationship and Tantra Coach. I have been studying Tantric Practices for nearly two decades

  • If a cancellation is made after our appointment is confirmed, you will be expected to pay a $100 cancellation fee

  • This fee can be used as a deposit towards a future experience within 6 months. Cancellation without at least 72 hours notice will be charged 25% of the fee for the scheduled time. This fee will need to be paid within one week of our set appointment and before I will confirm an appointment with you again. Since I am very exclusive about who I see, cancellations have a big impact and I appreciate your understanding in this regard.

In Person

  • Please be freshly showered and have fresh breath as i will. Shower and mouthwash are available at my private location. Cologne and extensive grooming are not necessary. 

  • Please arrive sober. We can share a glass of wine or other drink with 3 hrs or longer together. Ask me about incorporating CBD into the massage or our time together. 

  • Please do not arrive early for your appointment at my private sanctuary. I can give you the address of a near by cafe to wait at if you find yourself early. 

  • When you arrive at my location, please call me before coming up to make sure I'm ready for you. 

  • Always be discreet. Privacy is paramount. 

During our time together 

Alot below seems like common sense to me and unfortunately I have to be extremely clear since some people do not have manners. 

  • Treat me like a Lady. I will treat you like a King. 

  • Let me lead the experience. It's better that way, I promise!

  • Please understand if you arrive wasted, do anything non-consensual or push my boundaries after I have already said no to a request, I will ask you to leave and the donation will not be refunded.

    Unfortunately,  I have encountered more substance abuse and inappropriate behavior since the pandemic
     and I will not tolerate it as it impacts my ability to be present for the majority of my patrons who are considerate and respectful. 


  • Please do not  be on the phone or texting during our time together unless absolutely necessary. For example, if you must be on call or check your phone for work that is understandable. 

Follow up

  • If you’d be willing to give my coaching business a 5 star review on Yelp, let me know and I will give you that information. Please share your written review with me before posting it online and I will credit you $1000 towards your next course or VIP experience with me.

  • I always offer a 20 minute follow up call after any VIP experience, weekend training or coaching course is completed. 


Things to NOT do:

  • Do not suggest any behavior that is unsafe. 

  • Do not ask about services. I offer my time & coaching only.

  • Do not use explicit language, send any nude photo, be vulgar or rude or you will be ignored and blocked immediately.

  • Do not ask for more photos. There are plenty on my website. 

Thank you for your care for my comfort and happinessI'm looking forward to an incredible journey together.


Amber St. Germain

Amber St. Germain
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