Question 1

"Amber is the best. She is the gold standard in coaching"...

Accepted Answer

"Amber is the best. She is the gold standard in coaching. She blows away any experience I have ever had with any coach before who unfortunately usually lack the kind of authenticity and connection that Amber offers. I wouldn't hesitate to recommend her except that I would prefer to keep her all to myself."

–  S.V., Finance

Question 2

"What I realized is that my issues were not just about sex. They were about my insecurity and confidence..."

Accepted Answer

"What I realized is that my issues were not just about sex. They were about my insecurity and confidence. Working on this has led me on an incredible journey of personal growth and self actualization in every area of my life. My life is so much richer and fuller and more exciting and adventurous now than I could have even imagined before working with Amber. In the process I found my calling and life purpose and myself.

I am also happy to report that I now have a full, rich and deep sex life that is an important part of my spiritual path and personal growth. I can't imagine what my life would be like if I hadn't decided to commit to this  journey and healing and work with Amber and I don't want to. It’s sad to think of all the men out there who use porn as a replacement for a real sexual and spiritual relationship.
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If you're on the fence about working with Amber and investing in this area of your life I can tell you without reservation it's worth it 100 times over and as long as you are willing to take responsibility and do your part you won't be disappointed in the results.”

– J.M., author, investor and public figure, Asheville, NC

Question 3

“ I came to see Amber for coaching as a result of my wife wanting me to work on my anger issues and be happier"...

Accepted Answer

“ I came to see Amber for coaching as a result of my wife wanting me to work on my anger issues and be happier. I knew that my wife deserved better and that my anger and stress was starting to affect my job performance and my health. As the CEO of a large company, I need to be able to be at my best and function at a high level. I consulted my AI and it came back with Amber.

Although at times it has been hard work i can truly say that i am a better person now then when i met Amber. Amber is highly intelligent and good at problem solving and truly gifted in the spiritual and emotional realm. Her insights and the practices and mindset techniques she teaches have changed my life for the better. I've become a calmer and more loving person as a result of my work with Amber and my wife and employees have noticed the difference. I definitely haven't lost my edge in business either and can still be confrontational when needed. However, I'm less likely to over-react now. Emotionally I'm much more stable and happier as a result of my work with Amber.

I have worked with some of the best executive and business coaches out there and I can honestly say Amber is one of the best. I'm grateful my AI found her and that I committed to do the work and receive support. Talking with Amber weekly is a pleasure and it's helped bring my stress levels down. My health and my marriage have improved and I'm a better leader as a result.”

-P. M., CEO, S.C.

Question 4

“When I came to see Amber for Coaching I had recently retired and since I had been married a couple of times already I was interested in dating but not wanting to get married again. In fact I was curious about exploring polyamory and feeling insecure and afraid of coming across as creepy or a player"...

Accepted Answer

“When I came to see Amber for Coaching I had recently retired and since I had been married a couple of times already I was interested in dating but not wanting to get married again. In fact I was curious about exploring polyamory and feeling insecure and afraid of coming across as creepy or a player. I've always been shy and as a result of my ADHD I've had trouble having the confidence to meet and date women I'm actually attracted to. Also, I had been in therapy for many years healing my childhood wounding, yet still struggled with low grade depression, so when Amber said she could help me have a breakthrough and become happier and more confident, I decided to give it a try. I gave it a few months as Amber suggested and did the homework between zoom calls that she gave me and and to my surprise I started to see results within weeks of starting our work together.

Although the first date I went on didn't go well, Amber helped me trouble shoot what went wrong and what to do and say and not say next time. More importantly, we worked on my confidence issues as well as inherited family trauma healing. My grandfather had been excluded from my family system for having had more than one family. After that I began to meet women more easily and started having the experiences I actually wanted to have. To my surprise, I started meeting women who either also wanted to explore polyamory or who appreciated my honest communication and boundaries and still wanted to date me. For the first time in my life I was able to be myself with the women in my life and get my needs met. I found polyamory to be a powerful path of growth and healing and not just for myself but also for the women I was dating.

From my in person work with Amber during VIP days, I also learned practices to become a sexual healer and shaman and was able to help the women I dated become more orgasmic and happier too. From my work with Amber and a group tantra training she recommended, I learned that tantra and sexuality go beyond the superficial to the spiritual and beyond pleasure to healing. As a sexual shaman with several girlfriends, I no longer struggle with feelings of emptiness and depression or insecurity as a result of retirement. In fact I feel more fulfilled than I ever felt in my life before, even as a result of being a successful business owner and being able to sell my business for a good amount of money to retire with. I feel like I've found my true calling late in life and had a sexual and spiritual awakening I was not expecting.”

Question 5

“I came to see Amber after going through a traumatic separation from the mother of my children and moving to a new town. The separation had been the result of my unexpectedly discovering infidelity and my confidence and self esteem were at an all time low as a result"...

Accepted Answer

“I came to see Amber after going through a traumatic separation from the mother of my children and moving to a new town. The separation had been the result of my unexpectedly discovering infidelity and my confidence and self esteem were at an all time low as a result. Although my wife had already moved on, I couldn't imagine dating again after what I had just been through. I hadn't had sex in years since my wife had been seemingly uninterested after giving birth to both our little ones. I thought it was just a temporary situation and I never expected her to find someone else.

I came to Amber to get support with the transition to a new town and the separation I was going through and I got so much more. Amber helped me heal the deep wounds and insecurity left from the rejection I had experienced in my marriage and the marriage ending in such a difficult way.  She helped me with the challenges of becoming a single dad and coparenting with my highly manipulative ex wife and her new partner. Amber helped me to come out of the deep depression i had been in since i found out about the infidelity and she helped me see the mistakes i had made in the marriage and the red flags i had ignored so that i never have to go through anything like that again. Amber helped me become stronger in my masculine energy and boundaries and taught me tantra techniques to build my sexual energy and vitality.

Before long, multiple women were interested in me and although I had fun dating briefly, I quickly found a woman who is a great step mom for my kids and a much better match for me than my ex wife ever was. In fact, I'm having the best relationship and sex of my life. I'm grateful for the work I did with Amber and highly recommend her.”

-B. B., Tech Industry, N.C.

Question 6

“I found Amber online after a long dry spell. The ending of my previous marriage with my son's mom had left my confidence shattered. I had actually walked in on my wife with another man and in hindsight i believe the affair had been going on a long time. I was devastated and didn't date for a long time after that"...

Accepted Answer

“I found Amber online after a long dry spell. The ending of my previous marriage with my son's mom had left my confidence shattered. I had actually walked in on my wife with another man and in hindsight i believe the affair had been going on a long time. I was devastated and didn't date for a long time after that.  Amber helped bring me out of my shell and get me in the dating game. The truth is I had never been in the dating game before. The work I did with Amber led to some important insights that I had always been shy around women I was attracted to and insecure and afraid of getting hurt. As a result I married the first woman who showed interest in me which was obviously a mistake.

I worked with Amber because I wanted to have some positive and fun dating experiences before settling down again and I didn't want to just settle for anyone. I wanted to have the confidence to go after the women I was really attracted to and find the right one. If I hadn't worked with Amber I would have never developed the confidence and toughness on my own to go after the women I really wanted. She helped me understand how masculine and feminine dynamics really work and how to be successful with women. She taught me that confidence and self mastery trump everything. That was really important for me to understand because before that I thought it was all about how much I worked out and how much money I made.

Beyond theory, she helped me get the real world experience and practice I needed bantering with women and asking them out. Amber was there in my pocket when I needed help with what to say or how to respond to a text. She kept me from falling back into the insecure thoughts and behaviors that had pushed the women I really wanted away before until I was confident enough to stay strong on my own. I've enjoyed dating and having incredible experiences with beautiful women I previously would have thought were out of my league. I've also really enjoyed my time with Amber via zoom and would recommend her work to any heart centered player who wants to master the game of dating and confidence with women. I'm also looking forward to a Tantra Adept Training with Amber In person.”

-J.B., Real Estate, Orlando

Question 7

“It took me a long time to work up the courage to contact Amber. I've always been shy and I'm incredibly inexperienced with women for my age. I was so afraid to make the first move that I had been in love with a woman for a long time who also cared deeply for me and I lost her to another man due to not taking action and not letting her know how I felt until it was too late"...

Accepted Answer

“It took me a long time to work up the courage to contact Amber. I've always been shy and I'm incredibly inexperienced with women for my age. I was so afraid to make the first move that I had been in love with a woman for a long time who also cared deeply for me and I lost her to another man due to not taking action and not letting her know how I felt until it was too late. The experience of losing an important person I loved prompted me to finally contact Amber and be willing to do the work. I had been in therapy for some time working on my insecurity and emotional repression and my therapist recommended doing coaching with Amber.

Amber helped me overcome a lot of my insecurity and trust issues so I can be more in the moment and more confident and expressive with women I'm attracted to. When we worked together in person she was able to help me with my physical presence and embodied confidence and I realized I had been making myself small and invisible which wasn't helping me attract women. Amber diagnosed my sexual and relationship dysfunction and created a treatment plan. She helped me get more experience and confidence with women and helped me strengthen my masculine energy and physical presence. Now I'm more willing and able to go after what I want rather than letting important opportunities pass me by.”

-M.K., School Teacher, VA

Question 8

"I have had the best sex of my life, and I am currently involved with a beautiful, powerful woman in what feels like the first equal partnership of my life"...

Accepted Answer

"When I discovered Amber, I was already in the middle of a deep transformational journey. I had recently sold a business, retired, and divorced, ending an 18-year marriage (my second). I was extremely frustrated by the fact that both of my marriages had evolved into sexless relationships, despite my best efforts to the contrary. I knew that part of the answer lay in my own patterns and defenses, and that those came out of a lot of deep childhood trauma. While I had already spent quite a lot of time working on those things through traditional therapy, I also had a strong sense of the inherited generational traumas underlying it all, which were not being
addressed. Amber’s unique background allows her to look at a client’s situation through so many different lenses, and address the issues directly and concretely, through somatic work, through family constellation work, through a variety of tools.

I knew I already had some skills in the bedroom, but I was yearning to be more open
emotionally, to have better relationship skills, to be more present with my partner. I was yearning to understand and heal my relationship with the feminine, both in myself as well as with my partner. And, as the genealogist in my family, I was fascinated by the possibility that I could learn to heal the inherited generational traumas that I knew were at work. Her initial questions for me were very helpful in helping me see myself differently as a man. To have this sensual poised feminine REALLY ASK ME about myself was inspiring. I will say that her essence, how she inhabits the non-shaming, non-judgmental, loving, sexually empowered Divine Feminine, gives those who work with her access to spiritual life force energies that they rarely encounter, and certainly almost never encounter in professional life. Amber has a very deep holistic view of sex and spirituality that can help you overcome the very limiting and shame-filled view of sex that we are taught. She also has a large toolbox of practical skills for moving energy, such as following your breath, being in your body, and just being aware of the present and getting out of your head, that is ever so helpful.

In the past year, I have had the best sex of my life, and I am currently involved with a beautiful, powerful woman in what feels like the first equal partnership of my life, which is truly lovely. I feel that my ability to be fully present with my partner, to provide a sense of safety that allows her to open, and my intuitive understanding of what she needs and wants in the moment has grown ever so much. My comfort with my own sexuality has grown tremendously, as has my ability to provide pleasure for my partner. I am never overwhelmed by my partners deep emotional releases, and rarely in doubt as to how to handle a given situation. Three years ago, I felt a real sense of despair with the aging process and my aging body. Today, at age 68, I feel strong, sensual, sexy and powerful, and really looking forward to many years of providing the feminine with oceans of pleasure! I know that Amber has had her own difficult journey around these issues, which makes her coaching that much more authentic and heart-centered. You could not ask for a more loving and caring mentor, who sees your own inner Divine nature, and wants to help you express it."

-J.C., Retired Business Owner, VA

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"Amber is the best. She is the gold standard in coaching"...

"What I realized is that my issues were not just about sex. They were about my insecurity and confidence..."

“ I came to see Amber for coaching as a result of my wife wanting me to work on my anger issues and be happier"...

“I came to see Amber after going through a traumatic separation from the mother of my children and moving to a new town. The separation had been the result of my unexpectedly discovering infidelity and my confidence and self esteem were at an all time low as a result"...

"I have had the best sex of my life, and I am currently involved with a beautiful, powerful woman in what feels like the first equal partnership of my life"...